Art in Motion: Museum of Art in Atami, Japan

Staring at an artistc masterpiece for minutes on end.  Perusing ancient statutes, paintings, and handcrafted pottery. Sitting before a behemoth Miro or Picasso, mesmerized by bright colors. Hours on end staring at Van Gogh’s chunky brush strokes from every angle.  Days spent wandering museums from Amsterdam to Paris to St. Petersburg to New York City to Madrid. Then along came a baby.

My love of museums didn’t stop and I kept trucking. With my baby tucked in a baby carrier, we journeyed through the Louvre and the Norton Simon Museum. But then he turned into a rambunctious toddler . Once he wouldn’t stay in a baby backpack, I thought my museum wanderlust was resigned to stimulus overload at children’s museums. And then I had a second child and became scared of losing my kids in the whirlwind of motion at the kids museum.

Yet, at, here we are at an art museum at last. We are in Atchi, Japan, known for hot spring inns (onsen ryokans) that are centuries old. It is also known for MOA, Museum of Art, standing over the city on an oceanside cliff.  I don’t know what got into me but I decided to take the family to the museum. The sky looked with rain clouds waiting to burst, so we drove off to the museum.

The ride alone was worth the trip. We swerved through curvy local roads and spied on life outside the touristy resorts. Around every bend, ocean vistas appeared. The feeling of impending death on narrow, curvy roads in Japan never gets old. As the museum neared, we drive through a bamboo forest wonderland. The museum appeared, with Roman Greco columns of white. So….Japanese…

Museum of Art, MOA, Atchi, Japan

 

Suddenly the anxiety creeped up. Our relative was dropping us off with no car and two kids at an isolated museum. We would be there for hours with two nap-deprived kids. And onward we go!

The museum is sandwiched between a bamboo garden and an ocean side perch. There is not a bad view in sight. The vastness of the ocean and the high-in-the-sky bamboo dwarf  my stress. I am reminded that the world keeps on turning to the hand of an awesome Creator, and I start to settle into zen, kids and all.

Ocean Vista

This museum is like the Getty in Los Angeles; you can come just for the view and the grounds and have a wonderful time. Oh wait, there is art to be seen? Who wants to be indoors with this view?

Old me would grab a map and plot out a whirlwind tour through the key collections. New me is focused on finding the cafe. Nursing hunger pains! Plus, well-fed kids are less cranky. We find the restaurant which overlooks the museum gardens with floor to ceiling windows. Better yet, the food was so delicious, we ordered another round! The restaurant sticks with local ingredients and the freshness is clear. We had a pork meatloaf (in Japan, this is a hamburger) served on a sizzling black stone. It was surrounded by local mushrooms, radish, potatoes, eggplant, and onions, all sizzling in the pork juice. Everyone, baby included, indulged in it. Highly recommended! Go for the view and be surprised by the food.

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The next stop was the tea rooms. The museum houses an indoor tea room constructed gilded gold. It is perfectly preserved. I loved it for the history and a love of all things tea. The boys loved it for it’s blinding shininess.

 

Golden Tea Room

 

Afterwards, we traveled outdoors to the other tea room, one that actually serves tea! The museum garden contains a classic summer residence with ancient Japanese architecture and gorgeous gardens. We could have spent all day there. The kids loved roaming the moss-sprinkled pathway, destroying the zen in the rock garden, and roaming around ancient corridors. I loved immersing myself in a bygone era and the serenity of the gardens. I am also a tea nerd, and loved drinking freshly made matcha (green tea powder) in the tea room overlooking the gardens.

Bamboo with Wild Lillies

 

Entry to the Gardens

Former Residence

Tea Room

Eventually, we went inside to see the art.  We spent all of our time in a temporary exhibit about light. The kids, and the grown ups, loved it. As a result, this is my only photo of traditional Japanese art forum the permanent collection:

Japanese art

In the end, my kids taught me a new way to enjoy museums. It turns out I am less cranky when I am well fed. The art was more enjoyable on a full stomach. But beyond that, they forced me to slow down and really live the experience. Did I see every masterpiece in the museum? No. Did I read about the history and symbolism in the pieces? No. Did I stop, breathe, stroll, and take in the grounds and residences like a local from the past? You bet.

Light art

When it came to the actual art, my son introduced me to the joys of more experiential art. We spent half an hour in front of an interactive screen projection where our sillouhettes controlled the movement of colorful balls (see the featured image of this post). My son ran back and forth between colorful light displays. As his face lit up with wonder, so did mine. He reminded me the world is magical and the best art is to be fully enjoyed. And whatever you do, take the scenic route. (This includes the museum’s endless elevator corridor, filled with colored lights and surround sound symphony music).

This elevator has at least four sections this long and seems to travel to the center of the earth.

This elevator has at least four sections this long and seems to travel to the center of the earth.

Traveling with Little Kids: Practical Tips

My previous post proclaimed the secret of traveling with kids is just do it! And I mean it, just do it! Learn as you go. Surprise your self with your unexpected ability and super parenthood. Laugh at your ridiculous mistakes and fumbles. Dust yourself when you hit a bump in the road and carry on. But why reinvent the wheel? Let’s learn from each other and here is my two cents on how to make traveling with kids a little smoother.

1) Keep your expectations low. Does this sound like a departure from my positive spin? Well, it helps keep me positive when things get choppy on a long trip. When taking a long flight with little kids, I go in with really low expectations. I think about the potential tantrums, ears that won’t pop, restless wiggling that drives other passenger bonkers, cranky kids that won’t sleep, diapers exploding, food flying, saturation of my patience and my clothes with untold liquids. I think about simple tools I can bring to combat inevitable messes and disgruntled travelers. In the end, the trip is always smoother than expected. The result is that I am grateful for what went smoothly rather than frustrated about the inevitable challenges.

2) Carry a spare set of clothes for each person. I am all about traveling light but comfort and health are essential. Messes are shouganai (https://misomommy.wordpress.com/2014/06/30/shouganai-it-cant-be-helped-getting-my-zen-on-part-3/) with little kids, so be prepared. You will get wet and sticky and so will they. To prevent misery, rashes, and dampness, bring a spare set of clothes. If you manage to survive the trip without a major spill, you can use the clothes for a fresh outfit change when you arrive at your destination.

3) Always bring wipes, snacks, diapers (if applicable), and a little treat for yourself. If you forget wipes, grab some paper hand towels from the restroom. You can dampen them as needed. If you run out of diapers, as once happened to me in the middle of an international flight, use your last clean diaper with sanitary napkins from the airplane. Planes and most bathrooms provide feminine products, but diapers can be hard to dinIf you use up your last diaper unknowingly, you will have to secure the pad as best as possible with a onesie. You can also ask any other travelers with small kids for a spare. Parents usually love to help other parents.

4) Ignore the jerks. This may be one of the most important tips. When you travel, you will bump into all sorts of personalities. Do not let them rain on your parade. Some people have no sympathy for kids, some people are having a bad day, and some people just aren’t nice. For some reason, certain people love to spread their own gospel about how you should raise your kids. No one has all the answers for traveling with kids and no one knows your kids better than you. Try to keep a smile on your face and keep on going. Remember, how you react to Erik’s will be passed on to your kids, who watch and imitate your every mood. Don’t let strangers suck your energy

5) Write down a list of the most important things for your trip: passports, license, keys, a favorite toy, credit card, tickets, important reservation information, and so on. Use the list for packing and on your trip. Every time you transition off a mode of transportation, check out of a hotel, or leave anywhere with your bags, go through the list and make sure you have what you need most. There is nothing like losing your passport or access to money while you are responsible for little ones. Really write it down. Mental checklists deteriorate when juggling kids.

6) Count the total number of bags/items you are bringing. Then, count your bags every time you transition with them (airport, in and out of taxis, check ins and check outs, etc.). If you are traveling with another adult or older kids, do not rely on their counts or you are bound to hear or say “I thought you had it…agh!”. Do your own count.

7) What not to bring: (a) Toys that roll: This includes cars, crayons, balls and so on. Unless your child cannot live without it, do not bring toys that roll on modes of transport (you can pack them and use them wherever you sleep on your trip). These toys will roll away on the plane, ship, bus, etc. They will annoy other passengers and risk a major meltdown by your child if the toy becomes irretrievable. (B) Sticky or smelly foods. You do not need more mess or more reasons to irritate fellow travelers. (c) All your baby and toddler gear. Think hard about what you really need and brainstorm ways that one object can multitask for you. For example, a shawl or jacket can be used as a blanket, nursing cover, shade from sunny car windows, etc.

What are your traveling tips for kids? I would love to learn more!